{"product_id":"to-forgive-is-human-how-to-put-your-past-in-the-past-9780830816835","title":"To Forgive Is Human: How to Put Your Past in the Past","description":"\u003cp\u003eForgiving can be one of the hardest things you'll ever do. Perhaps you sense deep down that it will be good for you and others to put the past in the past. But sometimes no matter what you do, you just can't seem to forgive and get on with life. You still feel hurt, bitter and angry.How can you break the cycle? Grounding their analysis and advice in the latest psychological research, the authors of \u003ci\u003eTo Forgive Is Human\u003c\/i\u003e reveal how you can forgive and begin to repair broken relationships. Inside you'll discover\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ewhy, when you forgive, it sometimes doesn't last\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ewhat you can learn about forgiveness from the latest brain research\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ewhy you \u003ci\u003ecan't\u003c\/i\u003e forgive by forgetting\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ewhy simply deciding to forgive often doesn't do the trick\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ehow memory research can help you actually change your memories\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ewhat it means to forgive yourself\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ehow to balance justice and mercy\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ehow children can learn to forgive\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ehow you can gain empathy for those who have hurt you\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003cp\u003eLife is messy. Relationships are messy. And forgiveness is messy. But with this complete book on forgiveness, you can learn how to move ahead positively and constructively in ways you may never have thought possible.To err may be human, but so is to forgive.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eAbout the Author\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cp\u003eMcCullough (Ph.D., Virginia Commonwealth University) is associate professor of psychology at the University of Miami in Coral Gables, Florida. Formerly, he was director of research for the National Institute for HealthCare Research (NIHR) in Rockville, Maryland.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cp\u003eSteven J. Sandage (PhD, LP) is the Albert and Jessie Danielsen Professor of Psychology of Religion and Theology at Boston University and research director and senior staff psychologist at the Danielsen Institute. He has faculty appointments at Boston University in the School of Theology, the department of Psychological and Brain Sciences, and the graduate division of religious studies. His co-authored\/coedited books include \u003ci\u003eTo Forgive is Human\u003c\/i\u003e, \u003ci\u003eThe Faces of Forgiveness\u003c\/i\u003e, \u003ci\u003eTransforming Spirituality\u003c\/i\u003e, \u003ci\u003eThe Skillful Soul of the Psychotherapist\u003c\/i\u003e, and \u003ci\u003eForgiveness and Spirituality: A Relational Approach\u003c\/i\u003e. He has also published articles and chapters on forgiveness, humility, spirituality in psychotherapy, psychology of religion, intercultural competence and social justice, narcissism, borderline personality disorder, and suicide, among other areas. Sandage's research has been funded by the John Templeton Foundation, the Lilly Endowment, and the Fetzer Institute. Currently, he practices as a Licensed Psychologist at the Danielsen Institute with clinical specializations including couple and family therapy, multicultural therapy, and spiritually-integrative therapy. He also provides diversity training for mental health, educational, ministry, and business settings.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cp\u003eEverett L. Worthington Jr. (Ph.D., University of Missouri) is professor of psychology at Virginia Commonwealth University. He is a licensed clinical psychologist and former executive director of the Templeton Foundation's A Campaign for Forgiveness Research. Worthington has studied forgiveness since the 1980s and has published more than two hundred articles and papers on forgiveness, marriage and family, psychotherapy and virtue in a wide variety of journals and magazines. He was the founding editor of \u003ci\u003eMarriage and Family: A Christian Journal\u003c\/i\u003e and sits on the editorial boards of several professional journals. He has appeared on \u003ci\u003eGood Morning America, \u003c\/i\u003e CNN and \u003ci\u003eThe 700 Club\u003c\/i\u003e and been featured in award-winning documentary movies on forgiveness such as \u003ci\u003eThe Power of Forgiveness\u003c\/i\u003e and \u003ci\u003eThe Big Question.\u003c\/i\u003e He is the author of seventeen books including \u003ci\u003eHandbook of Forgiveness, Hope-Focused Marriage Counseling\u003c\/i\u003e and \u003ci\u003eForgiving and Reconciling.\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cbr\u003e","brand":"IVP","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":50675073089810,"sku":"9780830816835","price":23.99,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0831\/4771\/8930\/files\/img_aae8a34f-2dbd-4f47-a3a5-a44542d41c10.jpg?v=1733871287","url":"https:\/\/surprise-castle.myshopify.com\/products\/to-forgive-is-human-how-to-put-your-past-in-the-past-9780830816835","provider":"Surprise Castle","version":"1.0","type":"link"}