{"product_id":"reaching-him-guidance-for-families-and-friends-of-men-lost-in-an-abusive-relationship-9781764463409","title":"Reaching Him: Guidance for families and friends of men lost in an abusive relationship","description":"\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e\u003cem\u003eReaching Him\u003c\/em\u003e is the first comprehensive guide written specifically for families of male victims of coercive control\u003c\/strong\u003e \u003cstrong\u003eand psychological abuse.\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWritten by a survivor who spent a decade trapped in the same patterns your son is living through, this book gives you what no other resource provides: a complete framework for staying connected to someone who has been systematically disconnected from everyone who loves him.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eYou're watching him disappear.\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThe man you raised - confident, independent, full of life - has become someone you barely recognise. He defends her against the smallest concern. He's pulled away from family and friends. His world has shrunk to the size of her approval.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eYou've tried talking to him. You've tried pointing out what you see. Nothing works. Everything you do seems to push him further away.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eYou're not imagining it. And you're not powerless.\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eWhat you'll learn: \u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWhy he can't see what's happening - and why pointing it out makes things worse\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eHow masculine identity creates specific vulnerabilities that abusers exploit\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eThe \"leaving the light on\" approach that positions you to matter when he's ready\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWhat to say, what to avoid, and how to handle contact with her\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eStage-by-stage guidance from deep entrapment through crisis and recovery\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eHow to sustain yourself through what may be a long journey\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eSpecific guidance for parents, siblings, friends, and professionals\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eYour son needs you present and capable when the cracks begin to form. This book shows you how to be there.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eAbout the Author\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eAgain, Stand:\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e - Stand Again was created to support men recovering from family violence and coercive control. Written from lived experience, not clinical theory, the books and resources provide clear frameworks for understanding abuse, rebuilding identity, and learning to reconnect with healthy emotions.The mission of Stand Again is simple: no man should have to face recovery in silence or isolation. Through books, free resources, and YouTube content, Stand Again offers language, tools, and hope for survivors ready to reclaim their lives.","brand":"Stand Again","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":52033990951186,"sku":"9781764463409","price":18.95,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0831\/4771\/8930\/files\/img_f34cabea-d4a3-4f0d-907c-c9ca4b9a141c.jpg?v=1770984476","url":"https:\/\/surprise-castle.myshopify.com\/products\/reaching-him-guidance-for-families-and-friends-of-men-lost-in-an-abusive-relationship-9781764463409","provider":"Surprise Castle","version":"1.0","type":"link"}