{"product_id":"how-we-do-family-from-adoption-to-trans-pregnancy-what-we-learned-about-love-and-lgbtq-parenthood-9781615197569","title":"How We Do Family: From Adoption to Trans Pregnancy, What We Learned about Love and LGBTQ Parenthood","description":"Trystan and Biff had been dating for just a year when the couple learned that Biff's niece and nephew were about to be removed from their home by Child Protective Services. Immediately, Trystan and Biff took in one-year-old Hailey and three-year-old Lucas, becoming caregivers overnight to two tiny survivors of abuse and neglect.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e From this unexpected start, the young couple built a loving marriage and happy home--learning to parent on the job. They adopted Hailey and Lucas, tied the knot, and soon decided to try for a baby that Trystan, who is transgender, would carry. Trystan's groundbreaking pregnancy attracted media fanfare, and the family welcomed baby Leo in 2017.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e In this inspiring memoir, Trystan shares his unique story alongside universal lessons that will help all parents through the trials of raising children. \u003ci\u003eHow We Do Family\u003c\/i\u003e is a refreshing new take on family life for the LGBTQ community and beyond. Through every tough moment and touching memory, Trystan shows that more important than getting things right is doing them with love.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eAbout the Author\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eReese, Trystan:\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e - \u003cb\u003eTrystan Reese\u003c\/b\u003e is an established thought leader, educator, speaker, and the founder of Collaborate Consulting, which provides customized training in diversity, equity, and inclusion for individuals, organizations, and communities interested in social justice. A professionally trained anti-racism facilitator, he has been organizing within the trans community for nearly two decades. He is a 2021 Lambda Literary Fellow and has been featured in The Moth, \u003ci\u003ePeople\u003c\/i\u003e, and BuzzFeed. He is married to his partner, Biff, and they live in Portland, Oregon, with their three kids: Lucas, Hailey, and Leo. They are very happy.","brand":"Experiment","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":50478468170002,"sku":"9781615197569","price":17.99,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":false}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0831\/4771\/8930\/files\/img_eb8b8b5e-8cc0-42cc-b3ba-9bfdc207572a.jpg?v=1730302705","url":"https:\/\/surprise-castle.myshopify.com\/products\/how-we-do-family-from-adoption-to-trans-pregnancy-what-we-learned-about-love-and-lgbtq-parenthood-9781615197569","provider":"Surprise Castle","version":"1.0","type":"link"}