{"product_id":"how-do-i-sexy-a-guide-for-trans-and-nonbinary-queers-9781990869532","title":"How Do I Sexy?: A Guide for Trans and Nonbinary Queers","description":"\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eA practical and insightful consideration of what it means to be sexual as a trans, queer person.\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eWhat even is \"sexy,\" and how do you do it? A tough question for trans and nonbinary queers struggling to find their sexual selves in a landscape rife with misogynistic, transphobic and homophobic ideals and expectations. In \u003ci\u003eHow Do I Sexy?\u003c\/i\u003e Mx. Nillin Lore provides affirming and helpful direction based on over a decade of their own personal and professional experience as an educator, advocate, support worker and award-winning sex blogger.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eYou're invited to do some deep introspection, find a look that feels right and gain insight on sexiness from fellow trans and nonbinary queers. You'll also find valuable tips on navigating dating sites, finding community, managing rejection with grace and engaging in sexual relationships. Principled and compassionate, Mx. Nillin Lore will help you figure out who you want to be, who you want to be with and how to make it happen--both in the streets and between the sheets.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eAbout the Author\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eMx. Nillin Lore\u003c\/b\u003e (they\/them) is an AuDHD, trans and queer activist, advocate, and educator based in Saskatoon, Saskatchewan. They have had queer erotica stories published in a number of anthologies including \u003ci\u003eBest Lesbian Erotica of the Year\u003c\/i\u003e volumes 4-6 and \u003ci\u003eThe Big Book of Orgasms Volume 2\u003c\/i\u003e. They co-authored a chapter of \u003ci\u003eTrans Bodies, Trans Selves\u003c\/i\u003e and are the editor of \u003ci\u003eHeckin' Lewd: Trans and Nonbinary Erotica\u003c\/i\u003e.\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eSophie Labelle\u003c\/b\u003e is the French-Canadian author of Serious Trans Vibes \/ Assigned Male comics, which she has been drawing since 2014, and the books \u003ci\u003eWish Upon a Satellite, \u003c\/i\u003e\u003ci\u003eCiel, Ciel in All Directions, \u003c\/i\u003e and \u003ci\u003eMy Dad Thinks I'm a Boy?!\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cbr\u003e","brand":"Thornapple Press","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":50894201323794,"sku":"9781990869532","price":14.99,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0831\/4771\/8930\/files\/img_80d75e13-edcf-4b63-8559-c8562c4bb940.jpg?v=1738245963","url":"https:\/\/surprise-castle.myshopify.com\/products\/how-do-i-sexy-a-guide-for-trans-and-nonbinary-queers-9781990869532","provider":"Surprise Castle","version":"1.0","type":"link"}