{"product_id":"hold-on-to-your-kids-why-parents-need-to-matter-more-than-peers-9780375760280","title":"Hold on to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers","description":"\u003cb\u003eThis parenting classic is as relevant today as it was when it was first published, shining a light on one of the most misunderstood trends of our time: how the influence of peers, magnified by social media and video game culture, is replacing parents in the lives of children, and what parents can do about it--now featuring a new chapter\u003c\/b\u003e \u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cb\u003eWINNER OF THE NATIONAL PARENTING PUBLICATIONS GOLD AWARD - \"A worthy book that brings us genuinely new ideas and fresh perspectives on parenting.\"--Mary Pipher, Ph.D., author of \u003ci\u003eReviving Ophelia\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e \u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003eChildren take their lead from their friends: Being \"cool\" matters more than anything else. Shaping values, identity, and codes of behavior, peer groups are often far more influential than parents. But this situation is far from natural, and it can be dangerous--it undermines family cohesion, interferes with healthy development, and fosters a hostile and sexualized youth culture. Children end up becoming conformist, anxious, and alienated. \u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003eIn \u003ci\u003eHold On to Your Kids, \u003c\/i\u003e acclaimed physician and bestselling author Gabor Mat? joins forces with psychologist Gordon Neufeld to pinpoint the causes of this breakdown and offer practical advice on how to \"reattach\" to your children and earn back their loyalty and love. \u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003eBy helping to reawaken our instincts, Neufeld and Mat? empower parents to be what nature intended: a true source of enrichment, security, and warmth for their children.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eAbout the Author\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eGordon Neufeld, Ph.D\u003c\/b\u003e, is a Vancouver-based clinical psychologist, internationally renowned as a foremost authority on child development. His Neufeld Institute delivers many courses he has created for parents, educators, and helping professionals on several continents. He is recognized for his unique ability to unlock the clues to seemingly complex problems of child rearing and education. \u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cb\u003eGabor Maté, M.D.\u003c\/b\u003e, is a physician and the \u003ci\u003eNew York Times \u003c\/i\u003ebestselling author of \u003ci\u003eThe Myth of Normal, When the Body Says No, Scattered Minds, \u003c\/i\u003eand \u003ci\u003eIn the Realm of Hungry Ghosts\u003c\/i\u003e. A sought-after authority on stress, mind-body health, ADHD, parenting, and addictions, he travels extensively, addressing health personnel, teachers, and lay audiences across North America and internationally.\u003cbr\u003e","brand":"Ballantine Books","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":50575780839698,"sku":"9780375760280","price":14.99,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0831\/4771\/8930\/files\/img_fecac8b0-bbf6-4620-8b4f-5ceb1dfa7e9b.jpg?v=1731987945","url":"https:\/\/surprise-castle.myshopify.com\/products\/hold-on-to-your-kids-why-parents-need-to-matter-more-than-peers-9780375760280","provider":"Surprise Castle","version":"1.0","type":"link"}