{"product_id":"both-sides-of-then-finding-love-after-abandonment-9798888455142","title":"Both Sides of Then: Finding Love After Abandonment","description":"\u003cb\u003eWhen a young girl discovers her parent's painful life secrets her sense of self unravels, eliciting a long path to healing, acceptance, and love.\u003c\/b\u003e \u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eJennifer\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e is thirteen and living a quiet teenage existence when her parents reveal their innermost secrets; her mother has found the child she relinquished as a baby, and her father no longer wants to be part of the family. As Jennifer's young life unravels, she begins to self-destruct. \u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eAnna\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e, Jennifer's mother, is deeply affected by losing her parents at a young age and by her subsequent strict upbringing in a Baptist orphanage. Thrust into a changing world ill-prepared, she finds herself pregnant and unwed during a time when society shunned these young mothers. \u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e \u003ci\u003e\u003cb\u003eBoth Sides of Then\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e is the story of a mother and daughter's search for agency. Jennifer shares her difficult path to self-acceptance while piecing together her mother's young life using vignettes shared throughout her childhood. By writing from her mother's perspective, would Jennifer eventually understand her mother? Would she see her own life more clearly. \u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e A coming-of-age book and in-depth exploration of family frailty and resilience, \u003ci\u003eBoth Sides of Then\u003c\/i\u003e is a daring take on the power of the female voice, even after it's been silenced. \u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e \"It is a great act of love when a daughter works hard to fully understand her mother's life. In \u003ci\u003eBoth Sides of Then, \u003c\/i\u003eJennifer Griffith does exactly that. This memoir chronicles a daughter making sense of her own experience by unraveling the mystery of her mother's life. I wept, I laughed, and I wanted to call my mom after I finished this beautiful book.\" \u003cb\u003e--Julie Barton, \u003ci\u003eNew York Times\u003c\/i\u003e bestselling author of \u003ci\u003eDog Medicine\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e \u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e \"Jennifer Griffith's steely, calm voice is a marvel of compassion as she boldly inhabits her mother's pain in order to understand her own. \u003ci\u003eBoth Sides of Then \u003c\/i\u003eis a mesmerizing journey through empathy to forgiveness, written with clear-eyed bravery and love.\" \u003cb\u003e--Rachel Howard, author of \u003ci\u003eThe Lost Night\u003c\/i\u003e and \u003ci\u003eThe Risk of Us\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e \u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e \"In \u003ci\u003eBoth Sides of Then\u003c\/i\u003e, Jennifer Griffith expertly weaves her story of a troubled childhood with her mother's experience growing up an orphan. We come to understand two fundamental truths: we inherit much more than we realize and the only narrative more elemental than our own is our mother's. This compelling memoir expertly explores family history, abandonment, resilience, and ultimately, an imperfect but honest kind of love.\" \u003cb\u003e--Shanti Brien, author of \u003ci\u003eAlmost Innocent\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eAbout the Author\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003eJennifer Griffith hosts the popular \u003ci\u003eAbout Your Mother\u003c\/i\u003e podcast and holds a degree in English from Washington State University. She has studied writing with notable authors for years, including at the University of Washington, UC Berkeley, and Stanford. Her lived experience with generational trauma, familial secrets, and the hidden history of adoption is the inspiration for her work. In her writing and on her podcast, she focuses on honoring the complexities of motherhood, family, and the unique experiences that shape our lives.\u003cbr\u003e","brand":"Regalo Press","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":50892635996434,"sku":"9798888455142","price":14.99,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0831\/4771\/8930\/files\/img_6268c474-5f0f-4cdd-b3de-5bf40c4e74da.jpg?v=1738199246","url":"https:\/\/surprise-castle.myshopify.com\/products\/both-sides-of-then-finding-love-after-abandonment-9798888455142","provider":"Surprise Castle","version":"1.0","type":"link"}